Survive this Friendship - Central Area

Tuesday, 15 January 2019

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Urban area: Central Area, Central Region
Offer type: For Free


Contact name Ash

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Let’s face it. We all need friends, but we are afraid to make the first move. Cause if you say “hi” to someone, you will receive a “you xiao ah?” reply. But that’s what makes our society unique: a bunch of weirdos and unique characters.

Well I’m here looking for some new friends too; unique, weirdos whatsoever. In case you’re wondering, I’m a guy; aged 32. Just like liquor, I’ve gotten better with age. Oh yeah, I understand social websites have become a portal for mostly sex businesses and physical intimacy, so this is just a try out. And yes, this is your chance. Feel free to exit this ad if you are searching for things other than friendships. For the survivors, let’s move on.

So, what am I looking for? Just friends.

While we all have different perspectives, I have some beliefs in defining friendships:

-friends should not be chosen on selective grounds.
-all friends you knew today were once strangers. (they got interesting when you knew them)
-anyone can be friends with anyone
-some prefer a particular race. well I believe we are all pink when skinned. Nothing wrong in wanting a particular race but being racist can restrict people's social circle.
-no preference on looks. You may be big, small, short, tall, dark, white etc. We are different? Maybe not. We all have the same two eyes, a nose, a mouth, vital organs, love, emotions etc. We have more similarities than differences
-no restriction on age. Age is just a number, but maturity comes from experiences and emotional development. I have come across very matured young ones who can hold up intellectual conversations and childish and ignorant adults and elderly who made my day with stupid small talks.
-no boundaries on characters... we are all different here. some are annoying, some got attitude, some are stubborn... hey but that's what make friendship interesting... dealing with tough nuts and giving in.. oh yeah… we are all weird and unique in our own ways, right?
-be a listening ear and can converse any problems and solutions... (does not limit to just intellectual conversations. Even the stupidest conversation can bond friends and make one’s day)
-one who encourages you, overlooks your failures and tolerates your success.

A small intro about me. As above-mentioned, I’m a male, 32 years of age and of Indian descent. Born and bred locally, I spent most of my life in 'exploration'. Ok. That’s it. So, if you still looking for a girl or a white, your second chance to exit is here.

To add-on to the above list, i strongly believe a friendship should not have expectations and benefits and should have have mutual respect instead. In today’s world, we all have too much of expectations. And sometimes these expectations create the boundaries to our friendships. We create comfort zones and hide behind fake personalities which results in people becoming closed chapters in our lives.
"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth." - Oscar Wilde.
But friends help in bringing out our true selves and our childish nature. Well, we all have a childish nature; a cheap mind. But we decide whether its for the good or for the bad. Sometimes we wonder why CEOs or teachers and some people in power get caught for sexual crimes or even stupid ones like up-skirt photographs? My point exactly.

Though I’m posting here for the first time, I have made many friends in my life and I think there are more awesome ones out there. It’s a new year resolution too. New year new friends. LOL. But that doesn’t mean I ditched the old ones. We just got better by the year. I know genuine friends are hard to find but I did succeed. They usually come in limited breeds after long waits.

And very sorry for the long ad. I had to pour out everything from my mind. But on the bright side, you survived a long read. You’re a survivor. Hit me up if you’re looking for a friend too. But hey, reply only if you think you won’t disappear or stop texting after some time. A lot of people just can’t commit to friendships.

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